ARE Y’ALL READY FOR SOME TEAAAAAAAAAA
I bet most of you have wondered what being a university big girl in the day and a standard runs girl at night entails
Now this is it…
I had this very candid yet interesting conversation with a ‘university big girl’ yesterday and she had a lot to say, revealing when she started out in the ‘business’ she was abused a lot. One particular incident stood out to me though. According to her, she was invited to Owerri where she was told she would earn fifteen thousand naira. Getting there she was asked to dance so she could get picked, she did as she was told and was eventually picked. Being picked by a person who had a fetish for threesomes, she was asked to get another girl. Her first ever client being a doctor had them both test for HIV/AIDS and other STIs. A rather fortunate turn of events saw her escape getting infected with the deadly HIV virus as the other girl who tested positive to the virus was asked to leave. Sadly with the departure of the other girl she had to do a two person job when it came to satisfying her client. She did everything from oral to anal to real weird and painful sex positions and all that for N15,000 being the amount she initially sought out for but considering the pain she was left to bear for days after the job, N15,000 became dog food. After her first job experience, she realized it wasn’t as easy as everyone made it out to be, it wasn’t just selling your body to provide for yourself or to afford the good things small scale skill work couldn’t, it was trading your self esteem, dignity, sanity and respect for the good life and it was going to be HARD WORK regardless.
The hustle and struggle to live large in the university is real I tell you. There are a lot of girls who have been through something similar or even worse and sometimes it’s so disheartening cause they had no idea it was going to turn out as it did. Night time work isn’t your regular 9-5 where things follow certain routines, standard and rules, it’s a life threatening sport and everyday with its own demon. Be guided.
Valentine's day is right around the corner, one of the year's most difficult day regardless of your sex . It don't matter if you're Team Valentine or Team "I don’t give a damn". Given the unnecessary (if you ask me) pressure that accompanies this "special" day, people tend to do the most and by the most i mean embarassing, life changing mistakes only to end the day with regrets and "I wish I didn't do that". HEY! Don't Fret, thats why I'm here, to make sure you, my beautiful fireflies wake up to and end this year's Valentine's day with zero worries and zero regrets. Shall we? 1. GET A SEXY LINGERIE Now ladies hear me out, when I say buy a sexy lingerie, I'm not just speaking to girlfriends and wives so throw the “I'm single so why? Who am i going to wear them for?” excuse out the window. Lingerie stores usually give out discounts, especially during the weeks leading to Val’s day, they call i...
Nice work... Really love the write up, looking forward to the next one.. Cheers!!!
ReplyDeleteTrying to make ends meet doesn't mean you should sell your body...hope she's learnt her lessons??
ReplyDeleteWelldone Suoebi🙌🏻....I look forward to reading more...
Great content Suoebi!
ReplyDeleteWell work is work.
ReplyDeleteIf the aim is to make ends meet though!!
But if its to live large and to impress society, well, I have nothing to say.
Well some persons do such things for the fun, but I bet you when it comes back at you in the future you would be more surprised than anything else. There are so many other things to do in other to ease this lock down of a thing rather than sending twerk videos and the rest, they should thing deep.
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